Domestic Violence Bail Bonds

Domestic Violence, Spousal Abuse & Spousal Battery Bail Bonds

If you or someone your friend or loved one has been arrested for Domestic Violence, 1st Choice Bail Bonds Can Help! We have caring and compassionate agents standing by 24 hours a day / 7 days a week who can guide you through the process and help get your friend or loved one release from custody as quickly as possible.

Unlike many types of crime, most people arrested for domestic violence do not fit the typical criminal profile.  This type of crime affects families of every socioeconomic status, background, race and religion. For many families, this is the first time they have had to deal with the criminal justice system.  

Do you have questions about what will happen at court? Do you have questions about how possible temporary restraining orders will affect you? Do you have questions about what happens if someone is convicted of this type of crime?  Call us now! Let us help you through this difficult time. We are happy to answer all of your questions.  The information and help is FREE - Call 888-767-2245.

The following is a brief explanation of Domestic Violence, Spousal Abuse and Battery

What is domestic violence?

Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior that one person uses against another. Abuse can be violent behaviors such as hitting, punching and slapping, but it doesn’t have to be physical. It can include verbal and emotional abuse. It can also involve sexual assault. It can happen to anyone, at any age, no matter what race or religion they are, no matter what their level of education or economic background. Domestic violence also occurs in same-sex relationships.

Common California Penal Codes Defined:

Felony Domestic Violence / Spousal Abuse:

PC 273.5 (a) / PC 273.5a - Any person who willfully inflicts upon a person who is his or her spouse, former spouse, cohabitant, former cohabitant, or the mother or father of his or her child, corporal injury resulting in a traumatic condition, is guilty of a felony, and upon conviction thereof shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison for two, three, or four years, or in a county jail for not more than one year, or by a fine of up to six thousand dollars ($6,000) or by both that fine and imprisonment.

Misdemeanor Domestic Violence / Spousal Abuse

PC 243 (e)(1) - When a battery is committed against a spouse, a person with whom the defendant is cohabiting, a person who is the parent of the defendant's child, former spouse, fiance, or fiancee, or a person with whom the defendant currently has, or has previously had, a dating or engagement relationship, the battery is punishable by a fine not exceeding two thousand dollars ($2,000), or by imprisonment in a county jail for a period of not more than one year, or by boththat fine and imprisonment. If probation is granted, or the execution or imposition of the sentence is suspended, it shall be a condition thereof that the defendant participate in, for no less than one year, and successfully complete, a batterer's treatment program, as defined in Section 1203.097, or if none is available, another appropriate counseling program designated by the court. However, this provision shall not be construed as requiring a city, a county, or a city and county to provide a new program or higher level of service as contemplated by Section 6 of Article XIIIB of the California Constitution.

The Problem

What is Battering?

Battering is a pattern of behavior used to establish power and control over another person through fear and intimidation, often including the threat or use of violence. Battering happens when one person believes they are entitled to control another. Assault, battering and domestic violence are crimes.

Definitions: Abuse of family members can take many forms. Battering may include emotional abuse, economic abuse, sexual abuse, using children, threats, using male privilege, intimidation, isolation, and a variety of other behaviors used to maintain fear, intimidation and power. In all cultures, the perpetrators are most commonly the men of the family. Women are most commonly the victims of violence. Elder and child abuse are also prevalent. Acts of domestic violence generally fall into one or more of the following categories:

• Physical Battering - The abuser’s physical attacks or aggressive behavior can range from bruising to murder. It often begins with what is excused as trivial contacts which escalate into more frequent and serious attacks. 
• Sexual Abuse - Physical attack by the abuser is often accompanied by, or culminates in, sexual violence wherein the woman is forced to have sexual intercourse with her abuser or take part in unwanted sexual activity.
• Psychological Battering -The abuser’s psychological or mental violence can include constant verbal abuse, harassment, excessive possessiveness, isolating the woman from friends and family, deprivation of physical and economic resources, and destruction of personal property.

Battering escalates. It often begins with behaviors like threats, name calling, violence in her presence (such as punching a fist through a wall), and/or damage to objects or pets. It may escalate to restraining, pushing, slapping, and/or pinching. The battering may include punching, kicking, biting, sexual assault, tripping, throwing. Finally, it may become life-threatening with serious behaviors such as choking, breaking bones, or the use of weapons.

Why Do Men Batter Women?

Many theories have been developed to explain why some men use violence against their partners. These theories include: family dysfunction, inadequate communication skills, provocation by women, stress, chemical dependency, lack of spirituality and economic hardship. These issues may be associated with battering of women, but they are not the causes. Removing these associated factors will not end men’s violence against women. The batterer begins and continues his behavior because violence is an effective method for gaining and keeping control over another person and he usually does not suffer adverse consequences as a result of his behavior.

Historically, violence against women has not been treated as a "real" crime. This is evident in the lack of severe consequences, such as incarceration or economic penalties, for men guilty of battering their partners. Rarely are batterers ostracized in their communities, even if they are known to have physically assaulted their partners. Batterers come from all groups and backgrounds, and from all personality profiles. However, some characteristics fit a general profile of a batterer:

• A batterer objectifies women. He does not see women as people. He does not respect women as a group. Overall, he sees women as property or sexual objects. 
• A batterer has low self-esteem and feels powerless and ineffective in the world. He may appear successful, but inside he feels inadequate. 
• A batterer externalizes the causes of his behavior. He blames his violence on circumstances such as stress, his partner’s behavior, a "bad day," alcohol or other factors. 
• A batterer may be pleasant and charming between periods of violence, and is often seen as a "nice guy" to outsiders. 
• Some behavioral warning signs of a potential batterer include extreme jealousy, possessiveness, a bad temper, unpredictability, cruelty to animals and verbal abusiveness.

Why Do Women Stay?

All too often the question "Why do women stay in violent relationships?" is answered with a victim blaming attitude. Women victims of abuse often hear that they must like or need such treatment, or they would leave. Others may be told that they are one of the many "women who love too much" or who have "low self-esteem." The truth is that no one enjoys being beaten, no matter what their emotional state or self image.

A woman’s reasons for staying are more complex than a statement about her strength of character. In many cases it is dangerous for a woman to leave her abuser. If the abuser has all of the economic and social status, leaving can cause additional problems for the woman. Leaving could mean living in fear and losing child custody, losing financial support, and experiencing harassment at work.

Although there is no profile of the women who will be battered, there is a well documented syndrome of what happens once the battering starts. Battered women experience shame, embarrassment and isolation. A woman may not leave battering immediately because:

• She realistically fears that the batterer will become more violent and maybe even fatal if she attempts to leave;
• Her friends and family may not support her leaving;
• She knows the difficulties of single parenting in reduced financial circumstances;
• There is a mix of good times, love and hope along with the manipulation, intimidation and fear;
• She may not know about or have access to safety and support. 

Barriers to Leaving A Violent Relationship

Reasons why women stay generally fall into three major categories:

Lack of Resources:

•  Most women have at least one dependent child.  
•  Many women are not employed outside of the home.  
•  Many women have no property that is solely theirs.  
•  Some women lack access to cash or bank accounts.  
•  Women who leave fear being charged with desertion, and losing children and joint assets.  
•  A woman may face a decline in living standards for herself and her children. 

Institutional Responses:

•  Clergy and secular counselors are often trained to see only the goal of "saving" the marriage at all costs, rather than the goal of stopping the violence.  
•  Police officers often do not provide support to women. They treat violence as a domestic "dispute," instead of a crime where one person is physically attacking another person.  
•  Police may try to dissuade women from filing charges.  
•  Prosecutors are often reluctant to prosecute cases, and judges rarely levy the maximum sentence upon convicted abusers. Probation or a fine is much more common.  
•  Despite the issuing of a restraining order, there is little to prevent a released abuser from returning and repeating the assault. Ñ Despite greater public awareness and the increased availability of housing for women fleeing violent partners, there are not enough shelters to keep women safe. 

Traditional Ideology:

• Many women do not believe divorce is a viable alternative.  
• Many women believe that a single parent family is unacceptable, and that even a violent father is better than no father at all.  
• Many women are socialized to believe that they are responsible for making their marriage work. Failure to maintain the marriage equals failure as a woman.  
• Many women become isolated from friends and families, either by the jealous and possessive abuser, or to hide signs of the abuse from the outside world. The isolation contributes to a sense that there is nowhere to turn.  
• Many women rationalize their abuser’s behavior by blaming stress, alcohol, problems at work, unemployment or other factors. 
• Many women are taught that their identity and worth are contingent upon getting and keeping a man.  
• The abuser rarely beats the woman all the time. During the non-violent phases, he may fulfill the woman’s dream of romantic love. She believes that he is basically a "good man." If she believes that she should hold onto a "good man," this reinforces her decision to stay. She may also rationalize that her abuser is basically good until something bad happens to him and he has to "let off steam." 

Predictors Of Domestic Violence

The following signs often occur before actual abuse and may serve as clues to potential abuse:

1. Did he grow up in a violent family? People who grow up in families where they have been abused as children, or where one parent beats the other, have grown up learning that violence is normal behavior.
2. Does he tend to use force or violence to "solve" his problems? A young man who has a criminal record for violence, who gets into fights, or who likes to act tough is likely to act the same way with his wife and children. Does he have a quick temper? Does he over-react to little problems and frustration? Is he cruel to animals? Does he punch walls or throw things when he’s upset? Any of these behaviors may be a sign of a person who will work out bad feelings with violence.
3. Does he abuse alcohol or other drugs? There is a strong link between violence and problems with drugs and alcohol. Be alert to his possible drinking/drug problems, particularly if he refuses to admit that he has a problem, or refuses to get help. Do not think that you can change him.
   Does he have strong traditional ideas about what a man should be and what a woman should be? Does he think a woman should stay at home, take care of her husband, and follow his wishes and orders?
4. Is he jealous of your other relationships—not just with other men that you may know—but also with your women friends and your family? Does he keep tabs on you? Does he want to know where you are at all times? Does he want you with him all of the time?
5. Does he have access to guns, knives, or other lethal instruments?
6. Does he talk of using them against people, or threaten to use them to get even?
7. Does he expect you to follow his orders or advice? Does he become angry if you do not fulfill his wishes or if you cannot anticipate what he wants?
8. Does he go through extreme highs and lows, almost as though he is two different people? Is he extremely kind one time, and extremely cruel at another time?
9. When he gets angry, do you fear him? Do you find that not making him angry has become a major part of your life? Do you do what he wants you to do, rather than what you want to do?
10. Does he treat you roughly? Does he physically force you to do what you do not want to do?
     

Checklist

Look over the following questions. Think about how you are being treated and how you treat your partner. Remember, when one person scares, hurts or continually puts down the other person, it’s abuse.

Does your partner....

____ Embarrass or make fun of you in front of your friends or family?

____ Put down your accomplishments or goals?

____ Make you feel like you are unable to make decisions?

____ Use intimidation or threats to gain compliance?

____ Tell you that you are nothing without them?

____ Treat you roughly - grab, push, pinch, shove or hit you?

____ Call you several times a night or show up to make sure you are where you said you would be?

____ Use drugs or alcohol as an excuse for saying hurtful things or abusing you?

____ Blame you for how they feel or act?

____ Pressure you sexually for things you aren’t ready for?

____ Make you feel like there "is no way out" of the relationship?

____ Prevent you from doing things you want - like spending time with your friends or family?

____ Try to keep you from leaving after a fight or leave you somewhere after a fight to "teach you a lesson"?

Do You...

____ Sometimes feel scared of how your partner will act?

____ Constantly make excuses to other people for your partner’s behavior?

____ Believe that you can help your partner change if only you changed something about yourself?

____ Try not to do anything that would cause conflict or make your partner angry?

____ Feel like no matter what you do, your partner is never happy with you?

____ Always do what your partner wants you to do instead of what you want?

____ Stay with your partner because you are afraid of what your partner would do if you broke up?

If any of these are happening in your relationship, talk to someone. Without some help, the abuse will continue.

Here is an interesting study on Domestic Violence and the effects of arrest in domestic violence cases.
Here is an study of domestic violence statistics
Here is a study on Family and Employment Consequences of Domestic Violence

Help List

 Alabama Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (334) 832-4842 
 Alaska Network on Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault - (907) 586-3650 
 Arizona Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (602) 279-2900 
 Arkansas Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (800) 269-4668 
 California Alliance Against Domestic Violence - (916) 444-7163 
 Statewide California Coalition for Battered Women - (888) 722-2952 
 Colorado Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (303) 831-9632 
 Connecticut Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (860) 282-7899 
 Delaware Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (302) 658-2958 
 DC Coalition Against Domestic Violence -(202) 299-1181 
 Florida Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (850) 425-2749 
 Georgia Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (404) 209-0280 
 Hawaii State Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (808) 832-9316 
 Idaho Coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence - (208) 384-0419 
 Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (217) 789-2830 
 Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (317) 917-3685 
 Iowa Coalition Against Domestic Violence -(515) 244-8028 
 Kansas Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence - (785) 232-9784 
 Kentucky Domestic Violence Association - (502) 695-2444 
 Louisiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (504) 752-1296 
 Maine Coalition for Family Crisis Services - (207) 941-1194 
 Maryland Network Against Domestic Violence - (301) 352-4574 
 Jane Doe, Inc./MA Coalition Against Sexual & Domestic Violence-(617)248-0922 
 Michigan Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (517) 347-7000 
 Minnesota Coalition for Battered Women - (651) 646-6177 
 Mississippi Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (601) 981-9196 
 Missouri Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (573) 634-4161 
 Montana Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (406) 443-7794 
 Nebraska Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault Coalition - (402) 476-6256 
 Nevada Network Against Domestic Violence - (775) 828-1115 
 New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic & Sexual Violence - (603) 224-8893 
 New Jersey Coalition for Battered Women -(609) 584-8107 
 New Mexico State Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (505) 246-9240 
 New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence -(518) 482-5465 
 North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (919) 956-9124 
 North Dakota Council on Abused Women’s Services - (701) 255-6240 
 Ohio Domestic Violence Network - (614) 781-9651 
 Action Ohio Coalition for Battered Women - (614) 221-1255 
 Oklahoma Coalition on Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault - (405) 848-1815 
 Oregon Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence - (503) 365-9644 
 Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (717) 545-6400 
 Comision Para Los Asuntos De La Mujer , Puerto Rico - (787) 721-7676 
 Rhode Island Council on Domestic Violence - (401) 467-9940 
 South Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault -(803) 256-2900 
 South Dakota Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault - (605) 945-0869 
 Tennessee Task Force Against Family Violence - (615) 386-9406 
 Texas Council on Family Violence - (512) 794-1133 
 Utah Domestic Violence Advisory Council - (801) 538-4635 
 Vermont Network Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault - (802) 223-1302 
 Virginians Against Domestic Violence - (757) 221-0990 
 Washington State Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (360) 586-1022 
 West Virginia Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (304) 965-3552 
 Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence - (608) 255-0539 
 Wyoming Coalition Against Domestic Violence & Sexual Assault-(307) 755-5481 
 Women’s Resource Center, Virgin Islands - (809) 776-3966 
 Women’s Coalition of St. Croix, Virgin Islands - (340) 773-9272

Links

National Domestic Violence Hotline:   http://www.ndvh.org/

Family Violence Prevention Fund:   http://fvpf.org/

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence:  http://www.ncadv.org

National Network to End Domestic Violence:  http://www.nnedv.org

National Resource Center (NRC), a project of the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence800/537-2238:  http://www.pcadv.org

National Organization for Women:  http://63.111.42.146/home/default.asp

Violence Against Women Office:  http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo/

Women Matter http://www.womenmatter.com/indes.shtml